La Gringa Mas Bella: Married to the Mexican!

I blogged about Caleb's new girlfriend, Randi, and about our night at the skating rink (Jordan's odd relationship with Lisselle) ... now it's time for what happened on the way home from the skating rink.

On the way home everyone was hungry so we took a pitstop at McDonald's. The soon to be sister-in-law has suspected for quite some time now that her novio (boyfriend) has been honeymooning on the side. Why?

It's a lil complicated but before the boy came to the U.S. from Mexico, he left a girlfriend behind like a lot of Mexicans do. And like a lot of Mexicans do, they drop that left behind girlfriend in Mexico in exchange for more adventurous women in the U.S.

And life goes on ... well the left behind girlfriend found someone new and she came to the U.S. with that newby, to Colorado to be exact. I don't know how but these two began talking on the phone some time last year and the soon to be sister-in-law caught him talking to her.

So the soon to be sister-in-law asks all the important questions:

1. Why are you talking to your exgirlfriend?
2. Do you still love her?
3. Do you still want her?

You get the idea. So he tells her that he's not really sure how he feels about the exgirlfriend because she is in Colorado living with another man and the couple has a baby. He said that his exgirlfriend said that she wanted him back and wanted to come to S.C.-he also told her that he wanted her back too, and that he wanted her to come here to S.C. to be with him ... baby and all.

The exgirlfriend said she would come as long as he talked to her brothers, since they are so protective of her but he didn't wanna talk to her brothers. (Guess he didn't want her that much afterall, too much trouble??)

Then he convinces the soon to be sister-in-law that it was nothing and that he wouldn't talk to the exgirlfriend in Colorado any more. And she believed him.

The soon to be sister-in-law confronts me a few months ago to see if I could log in to the cellular account for a detailed report of incoming/outgoing calls just to make sure that her man is not talking to the exgirlfriend in Colorado still.

I couldn't resist because I can't stand to see any chick be wronged or vice versa so Friday night at McDonalds, that's what we did. We logged into the cellular account and yes he is still talking to the exgirlfriend in Colorado and possibly a few new chicks too.

Where does one find the time to do these things???

Well on the weekends, he stays out 'with the boys'. Often times ALL NIGHT LONG and doesn't come home sometimes until Sunday afternoon. The soon to be sister-in-law allows him to do this because he's kinda macho; he gets mad if she comes around when he is with his friends or calls too many times, etc.

And she does everything she can to make him happy. (#%^$#@)

So on the way home we are nearing the parking lot where my soon to be sister-in-law parked her vehicle (she rode with me) and she calls her boyfriend to see where he is, he says he's at a place locally known as West Side. A place just around the corner from where her vehicle is parked so when she gets off the phone with him she says, "let's ride to West Side".

So we did and, of course, the boyfriend lied ... he's not there.

I remember the Mexican telling me about some apartments near the Kangaroo gas station that his brother is rumored to frequent so off we go to see if he is there and wouldn't ya know ... yep there's his truck.

We figure out a way to lure him out.

We pull up to the apartments and the door is open to the unit where his truck is parked and we see a dark figure (there was only t.v. light inside) standing near the door who, once upon seeing us, closes the door rather quickly. The soon to be sister-in-law goes to the door and knocks, the apartment goes completely dark, and no one wants to answer the door. She hears a back door open and close, she continues knocking and a woman answers who says that her boyfriend is not there. Another woman is peeking through the living room to see who is at the door and suddenly said boyfriend just pops up from the other side of the apartments ... he walked all the way around to avoid being caught.

It's clear to me that he was with someone else, but somehow he is working on convincing the soon to be sister-in-law that he was in a totally different apartment with a bunch of guys drinking. He acts like he has no clue about the apartment she is talking about and says it wasn't him standing by the door.

Whatever!

In the meantime the soon to be sister-in-law really wants to believe him because she loves him but she also knows what she saw. Her weekend has been hellish and the two of them are not getting along well.

The Mexican blames me, he doesn't even know that we looked at the cellular records, but says it's my fault for giving her a ride to those apartments. I don't care what he says because if he lied to me about where he was I'd look for his a$$ too. When the soon to be sister-in-law found her boyfriend she jumped in the truck with him and argued later about the circumstances.

You see, I wouldn't have left the apartment if my man was in questionable circumstances because everyone would've heard me ... it's not that I have a short fuse or anything but he'd have more some explaining to do. I'd have an all out investigation going on starting with the people who live in that particular apartment!

The soon to be sister-in-law had to get out of the house yesterday so we went to the circus :)

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